Thursday, October 15, 2026

Daughters of the Bamboo Grove

Cabinet Bed - closed and open

Yesterday we noted that we almost forget to talk about the book when we are together. Still, Daughters of the Bamboo Grove opened up several interesting themes. There is such a tsunami of politics these days it is rare to talk about anything else for long. 

Our next book will be Whistler by Ann Patchett.  We will meet at Susan's on Wednesday November 18th. 

On Wednesday December 9th we will meet at Saara's to talk about The Things We Never Say by Elizabeth Strout. 

For the new year we are planning to meet at a restaurant on January 13th just to celebrate being together. We are still thinking about the best place to meet. 

Books of Note: 

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Curried Squash (Sweet Potato) Peanut Butter Soup

1 large chopped onion
2 stalks of chopped celery
4 cloves minced garlic
2 tablespoons olive oil
1 tablespoon of curry powder
1 large butternut squash, peeled and chopped (you may also use 3 to 4 pounds of
sweet potato, carrot, acorn squash or any fall squash
5 cups chicken stock, vegetable stock or orange juice
1 cup peanut butter
salt to taste

Sauté the onions, celery and garlic in the olive oil until they soften and smell great. Add the curry powder and stir for a few minutes. Add the squash (sweet potato) and chicken stock and bring to a simmer. Cook until the squash softens, about 30 minutes.
Add the peanut butter and puree until smooth. Taste and season with salt.

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Orange Cranberry Cake

1/2 cup butter, softened
1/2 cup oil
1 1/2 cups sugar, divided
4 clementines, washed 
2 large eggs
1 tsp vanilla
2 1/2 cups flour
1 tsp baking powder
1/2 tsp baking soda
1/2 tsp salt
1 to 1 1/2 cups fresh or frozen cranberries 

Preheat oven to 350. Spray bundt pan with oil.
Beat butter, oil and 3/4 cup sugar until pale and fluffy. Beat in eggs and vanilla. Stand mixer is easiest.
Trim stems from clementines and cut into quarters. Pulse them in a food processor with 3/4 cup sugar until well pureed. Add 1/2 the dry ingredients to the mixer bowl and combine on slow. Add the pureed mixture and the rest of the dry ingredients and slowly mix. Add the cranberries (no need to thaw if they're frozen).
Spoon into the pan and bake for an hour, or until springy to the touch. Cool for 20 minutes before removing from the pan. 
A good glaze for this is 2 tbsp melted butter, 2 tbsp triple sec, 3/4 cup icing sugar. Mix and drizzle over cake.


Thursday, September 10, 2026

Beaches Hideaway

 

It was a special afternoon in Jo's hidden backyard retreat. The weather report indicated rain but it was more like a heavy mist most of the time and the temperature was perfect for dining al fresco in a sheltered  nook. Vegetables and fruit were centre-stage as we started with a zesty gazpacho, and had a beautiful fruit salad for afters. Delicious and exceptionally healthy. Thank you to Jo for inspired hosting. 

Next we will meet at my place to talk about Daughters of the Bamboo Grove by Barbara Demick.  This will be on Wednesday, October 14 at noon. 

We made a choice for our November book - Whistler by Ann Patchett, and a plan to meet at Susan's on Wednesday, November 18 at noon. 

Let's remember that the public library hosts interesting events, including a Salon evening with Patrick Radden Keefe, the author of  London Falling on Monday September 14 (already sold out).

Also Daily Bread Food Bank, will host the first mayoral debate of the 2026 election on Monday, Sept. 14, at 7:00 p.m. at 191 New Toronto St. 

Books: 

Gazpacho à la Jo 

Combine 2 tbsp olive oil and 2 large cloves crushed garlic. Let this sit while you do all the chopping:

  • fresh tomatoes chopped in small pieces - this is the base so lots

  • cucumber - 1 english 
  • yellow/orange pepper
  • green onion
  • a bit of red onion
  • fresh basil, parsley and dill
  • anything else you like or have around
Add all this to the garlic and oil. Add chicken stock  

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Tuesday, August 11, 2026

Port Hope Idyll

 

Yesterday we met in Janice's lovely and peaceful garden. The weather turned out to be perfect for driving, and for sitting outside in the shade. Jane made the very tasty salads and chicken. And as usually we swooned over the desserts. The book London Falling, provided food for thought and conversation. Thank you Janice and Jane for a memorable afternoon in Port Hope. 

We will meet next month at Jo's.  The book will be John of John by Douglas Stewart.  This will be on Wednesday, September 9.  

The following month we will meet at my place (Marian) to talk about Daughters of the Bamboo Grove by Barbara Demick - Wednesday, October 14.

Books: 

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Thursday, June 25, 2026

The Sweetness of Water


We were impressed with this yarn of the Reconstruction south with its richly drawn characters and energetic plot line. We met at Jane's house with a view of her garden featuring orioles and other feathered friends. It was hard to get up and leave as the afternoon wound down. Thank you Jane, and top marks for that elevated strawberry shortcake dessert!

Our next book will be non-fiction, London Falling by Patrick Radden Keefe. We will be at Jo's on Wednesday July 15 at noon. 

In August the hosting will be shared by Jan and Jane. The book will be John of John by Douglas Stewart. This will be on Monday, August 10th at noon. 

Books: 

  • Of Mice and Men by John Steinbeck
  • In the Orchard, the Swallows by Peter Hobbs
  • Dominion by Addie Citchens
  • Mother Mary Comes to Me by Arundhati Roy
  • The Loneliness of Sonia and Sonny by Kiran Desai
  • The Things We Never Say by Elizabeth Strout
  • Three Days in June by Anne Tyler
  • My Family and Other Animals by Gerald Durrell

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Thursday, May 14, 2026

What We Can Know (or Corona?)

Next protest on May 30

Yesterday we met at Wanda's to talk about What We Can Know by Ian McEwen. We found the book's title to be a little obscure. But then, the narrative also depended quite often on the readers' piecing together clues. Wanda made us all at home with fancy cheese, lunch and our favorite orange chiffon cake for dessert. Thank you Wanda! The yummy cheese reminded me to mention Formaticum, from France, used to wrap cheese so it will stay fresh. 

We made plans for the next three months. Our next meeting will be at Jane's. We will be discussing The Sweetness of Water by Nathan Harris on Wednesday June 24th at 12 noon. 

On Wednesday, July 15 at noon we will be at Jo's to talk about London Falling by Patrick Radden Keefe. 

In August we will take a drive to visit Jan and Jane, and talk about John of John by Douglas Stewart. This will be on Tuesday, August 10th at noon. 

 Books:

Friday, April 17, 2026

The Correspondent

 

We were only four at Saara's yesterday. Too bad the others had to miss a lovely afternoon of conversation and a yummy brunch. Saara always delights our taste buds. By contrast, the day was dark and as wet as April can sometimes be.  

The Correspondent provided several topics to discuss and think about. We enjoyed the epistolary format and the complex character of Sybil Van Antwerp. 

Next month the book will be What We Can Know by Ian McEwan. We will be meeting at Wanda's on Wednesday, May 13 at noon. 

On Saturday, April 25 there will be a province-wide protest against the many unfortunate changes that Doug Ford is bringing to Ontario. Maybe some of our group will join me in standing up for a better way. We mentioned Mark Carney, Jacinda Ardern, Zohran Mamdani (mayor of NYC) and Alexander Stubb of Finland as politicians who inspire respect, and give us hope. 

Books: 

  • The Last Doctor by Jean Marmoreo
  • Book of Lives by Margaret Atwood
  • Departures by Julian Barnes 
  • A Different Kind of Power by Jacinda Ardern

Video: 

  • Big Mistakes  - Netflix 

Thursday, March 19, 2026

Two books


What a winter we are having this year! Let's take heart with the first official day of spring this weekend. We were to meet at Saara's in February but had a last minute cancellation due to snow. It actually snowed yesterday again when we met at Susan's but the snow wasn't enough to interfere with our meeting. Susan offered us a cozy soup and sandwich lunch and some special delicacies for dessert - yum!  We discussed the two very different books - Pachinko and Pick a Colour. 

Since we missed going to Saara's in February we will go there next month. Jane will have to choose a later date. On Thursday April 16 we will go to Saara's at noon to talk about The Correspondent by Virginia Evans.

On Wednesday May 13 at noon we will meet at Wanda's. The book will be What We Can Know by Ian McEwan. 

Books:

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Saturday, January 10, 2026

Pub Lunch


 It was a remarkably fine day in January to meet for lunch at The Duke of York. After a super meal followed by dessert - photo is sticky toffee pudding with vanilla ice cream on the side - we did some planning for our future meetings. 

Here's what I recorded in my calendar. Let me know if there are any mistakes since our negotiations about time and place became quite confusing. 

We had already decided to meet at Saara's on Wednesday, February 18 at noon. The book is Pachinko by Min Jin Lee.   

On Wednesday, March 18 we decided to meet at Susan's to talk about Pick a Colour by Souvankham Thammavongsa.

We will be at Jane's on Thursday, April 16 to talk about The Correspondent by Virginia Evans.  

And on Wednesday, May 13 we will go to Wanda's. My notes don't include a book title for this date but there's plenty of time to come up with one. 

Books: 

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Wednesday, December 10, 2025

That's a Wrap, 2025

It is December and the weather outside looks like mid-January today. Luckily this snow was just beginning yesterday when we trekked out to Jo's to talk about Fire Weather by John Vaillant. Maybe it was the weightiness of the idea of climate change that set us off but we went on to grapple with other great imponderables like what's so great about Finland, the current state of feminism, race, anxiety, and life itself. Thank you to Jo for making us feel truly welcome and comfortable. It was a wonderful afternoon for the last meeting of the year.

We made tentative plans for the beginning of a new year. What does everyone think about meeting for lunch together at the Duke of York pub near the St. George subway station? How about Friday January 9th? Check your calendar.

The book we chose for February is Pachinko by Min Jin Lee. This book is the basis for the television series on AppleTV+.  Saara will host on February 18th at noon. 

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Friday, November 14, 2025

November

Susan Abulhawa wrote a heart-felt saga of a Palestinian family and the tragic legacy of conflict and grief. Mornings in Jenin blended fiction with the actual history of the monumental problem that festers in the Middle East. Though the subject was difficult, just being together in any circumstance is a pleasure that Lynda accented with a beautiful selection of delicacies. A memorable afternoon Lynda. Thank you!

Our next book is Fire Weather by John Vaillant. We will meet at Jo's on Tuesday, December 9th at noon to talk about it.

We talked about food and the idea of having prepared meals delivered fresh by FactorMeals and Summerhill Market. We learned about a remarkable holiday destination, Les Petits Cousins du Quebec in Dordogne France. Because sleep isn't always easy we shared ideas about slowing down our racing thoughts with meditation. Examples of apps for meditation were Plum Village and Insight. 

Notable Books: 

  • There are Rivers in the Sky by Elif Safak 
  • The Capital of Dreams by Heather O'Neill 
  • Flesh by David Szalay 
  • An Accidental Villain by Lyndon MacIntyre 
  • That They May Face the Rising Sun by John McGahern 
  • The Correspondent by Virginia Evans 
  • We Will Not Be Saved a memoir of hope and resistance in the Amazon rainforest by Nemonte Nenquimo and Mitch Anderson 

 

Thursday, October 23, 2025

The Relatives

 I'm so glad I live in a world where there are Octobers.  L.M. Montgomery 

 October trees decorated our drive to Jane's yesterday where we had a cozy afternoon with friends. We enjoyed soup and snacks and Jane outdid herself with a beautiful and decadent gluten-free chocolate cake. The Relatives was a well-chosen book that sparked thoughtful conversation about the unique challenges of modern families. 

We finally got to make some decisions about the next few months. Our next meeting will be at Lynda's on Wednesday, November 12 at 12 pm.  The book will be Mornings in Jenin by Susan Abulhawa. 

Then, on Tuesday, December 9 at 12 pm we will be at Jo's to talk about Fire Weather: the making of a beast by John Vaillant.  

Books: 

 

Wednesday, September 24, 2025

Theft

Well, that was fun. It is always good to see each other. Thank you Wanda for dropping in via text. You missed a great discussion about Theft, a marvellous read. Tanzania may be an exotic location but we recognized the characters and their concerns, as well as the bigger issues of colonialism and the abuse of power. We also had some great laughs playing "guess which great film you need to see, with title, actors and every other helpful detail unremembered". Google was the big winner. 

Our next book club meeting will be on Wednesday, October  22nd when we will be at Jane's to discuss The Relatives by Camilla Gibb 

Books of Note: 

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Here's the recipe for Best Almond Cake.  I recommend this recipe, except for the instruction to use a springform pan. I tried this and found that there was leakage. The next time I used a normal pan, and lined the bottom with a circle of parchment paper before spraying. There was. no issue releasing the cake from the pan. 

Wednesday, August 27, 2025

Say Nothing

Wanda's back garden was appealing to us readers on a perfect August afternoon, and also to many wasps. Ogden Nash said it: 

The wasp and all his numerous family
I look upon as a major calamity.
He throws open his nest with prodigality,
But I distrust his waspitality. 

We decided that it was much better to be inside enjoying reliable hospitality. The nibbles were perfect for us and we didn't have to fight wasps for each delicious bite. Thanks to Wanda for a lovely afternoon. Your poppyseed cake is truly marvellous. 

Say Nothing was a catalyst to thoughts about some of the world's thorny conflicts - a lively conversation about history and current events. 

Please remember that we will meet at my place on Tuesday September 23rd. The book will be Theft by Abdulrazak Gurnah. And on Wednesday, October  22nd we will be at Jane's to discuss The Relatives by Camilla Gibb. 

Books: 

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Thursday, July 24, 2025

Summer in the City


 We met at Saara's on a perfect summer day. The sky was cloudless and the view reached to Lake Ontario and beyond.  Everyone expected a marvelous meal but Saara exceeded expectations with a very special shrimp salad and her scrumptious summer fruit pie (recipes are below). Besides basking in the hospitality, we also spent some time talking about our book, The Paris Express by Emma Donoghue.  

Our next book will be Say Nothing by Patrick Radden Keefe. The date is Wednesday, August 27th and we will meet at noon at Wanda's house. Watch the video version of Say Nothing on Disney+.

On Tuesday, September 23rd the meeting will be at my house (Marian) at noon again. The book will be Theft by Abdulrazak Gurnah.  

We also planned for October - Wednesday the 22nd, at noon. We will meet at Jane's and our book will be The Relatives by Camilla Gibb.  

Books of Note 

  • H is for Hawk by Helen Macdonald
  • Sweetness in the Belly by Camilla Gibb
  • Empire of Pain by Patrick Radden Keefe
  • Kairos by Jenny Erpenbeck
  • Hope is a Woman's Name by Amal Elsana Alh'jooj
  • The Warmth of Other Suns by Isabel Wilkerson
  • Caste by Isabel Wilkerson
     

 
 

 


Tuesday, June 24, 2025

Hot Day in Port Hope


Since our last meeting, a few of us had the opportunity to visit the bench that Tom arranged to put up in memory of Maureen. It is in a lovely location, along the Waterfront Trail near their condominium (2267 Lakeshore Blvd West). Its precise placement is shown on google maps at this link, which also shows photos of the bench, the view of the lake and snaps of people who have visited it. Liam is going to post one of the  photos that were taken when we visited.

In contrast to the unseasonably cool temperatures we had for the May meeting at Jo's, the weather for our June meeting was hot and steamy. We were very happy to escape from Toronto and meet in Port Hope, where Jan and Jane graciously co-hosted us. We were treated to delicious snacks and lunch at Jan's house, and then to a scrumptious Eton Mess dessert at Jane's. Our book for June was The Mighty Red which we agreed was a very interesting read, because of its cross-section of quirky, plucky characters and the challenges they faced, as well as its reference to an array of environmental, historical and economic issues. Many thanks to Jane and Jan for working in the midst of the heatwave to make our day so enjoyable!

We will be meeting at Saara's in July--likely July 23rd but this will be confirmed. We will be reading The Paris Express by Emma Donoghue.

In August we will be reading Say Nothing by Patrick Radden Keefe. We will be meeting at Wanda's on August 27th.

Books we discussed:

  • The Warmth of Other Suns by Isabel Wilkerson
  •  Fire Weather: a True Story from a Hotter World by John Vaillant
  •  The Island of Missing Trees by Elif Shafak
  •  The Thing Around Your Neck by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

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Thursday, May 22, 2025

Rain and more rain


What a wet week! And so cold for May! We met at Jo's but we were forced indoors, missing out on her  garden paradise. Still, thanks to Jo's hospitality we had a perfect afternoon together talking about this and that as well as our book, The Trembling of a Leaf.  Written a century ago, the stories were an interesting counterpoint to The House of Doors which we read last month. A big thanks to Jo for hosting the gathering. 

Our next afternoon will be at Janice's house on Monday, June 21.  Because of the distance, we will meet at 11:30, have lunch, and be on the road before the traffic becomes too heavy.  The book we chose is The Mighty Red by Louise Erdrich. 

It was announced today that Michael Crummey won the Dublin Literary Award for his book The Adversary so why not mention it here?  

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Monday, April 28, 2025

The House of Doors

 


We met at Jane's to share our thoughts about The House of Doors. It was a perfect afternoon to spend together and Jane welcomed us with her usual "just right" hospitality - so relaxing in our hectic world. The world of our novel was something else again - steamy, languid and lush with multiple layers of intrigue, all set in a time when casual racism and conventional expectations went unquestioned. 

Our next book will be a followup, The Trembling of a Leaf by W. Somerset Maugham. (Project Gutenberg provides this book from 1921 online).  We will be at Jo's to talk about it on Wednesday, May 21 at 1 pm.

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Friday, March 21, 2025

Spring! Happy Nowruz!!


Nowruz, Persian New Year has been celebrated for more than 3000 years. It falls on the first day of spring. Traditions involve arranging a display of seven symbolic items: sprouts for rebirth, wheat pudding for strength, olives for love, berries for the sunrise, vinegar for patience, apples for beauty, and garlic for health. Happy Nowruz!

We spent a lovely afternoon at Susan's house on the first day of spring, or Nowruz for those celebrating, talking about The Wren, The Wren by Ann Enright, a  book that seemed appropriate to the season. Susan provided some elegant snacking and a special birthday surprise. The recipe for her delicious grated apple tart is below. 

We have a plan for next month. The book is The House of Doors by Tan Twan Eng. We will meet at Jane's on Thursday, April 24th at 1 pm.  

Books 

  • The Shortest History of Israel and Palestine by Michael Scott-Baumann
  • One Day, Everyone Will All have been Against This by Omar El Akkad 
  • Raising Hare by Chloe Dalton
  • Not Even the Sound of the River by Hélène Dorion
  • Caledonian Road by Andrew O'Hagan 
  • Tell Me Everything by Elizabeth Strout 
  • On the Ravine by Vincent Lam
  • The House of Doors by Tan Twan Eng
  • The Ninth Hour by Alice McDermott

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Susan’s Grated Apple Tart

Base

  • 1 cup flour
  • 1/2 cup butter
  • 2 tbsp sugar
  • 1 tbsp white vinegar
In a food processor pulse first 3 ingredients until well blended. While food processor is running, add vinegar and pulse briefly. Dump into an 8” springform pan and pat into the bottom and sides.

Filling

  • 3 cups grated apple (Cortland, Macintosh)
  • 1 cup sugar
  • 2 tbsp flour
  • 1 tsp cinnamon
Grate apples and mix with the other ingredients. Pour into shell and smooth top. Bake at 400 degrees for 45 minutes or until crust is lightly browned. Let cool and turn out onto plate.

 

Thursday, February 13, 2025

Before the storm


Yesterday we met at Lynda's, and the weather kindly assisted by holding back the storm for the afternoon. Today everything is white and white as the world is snowed in or shovelling. Lynda provided us with delicious treats and quiet background music while we talked about Passionate Mothers, Powerful Sons, the lives of Sara Roosevelt and Jenny Churchill and how they influenced the illustrious careers of their famous sons. In our current world of disquiet, book club afternoons are a particularly welcome respite - thank you so much Lynda. 

Next month the book will be The Wren, The Wren by Ann Enright and we will meet at Susan's on Thursday, March 20 at 1 pm. 

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Friday, January 10, 2025

It's a new year!


It was a brisk January day when we met to talk about In Winter I Get Up at Night by Jane Urquhart. We met at Wanda's with Janice acting as host. Not only did Janice spoil us with tasty treats but she brought along the other Jane who has been missed in recent years. It was pretty special to be together and we marked the occasion by taking pictures. See below. Thank you to both Janice and Wanda for making this happen. Also, what a great book!

We firmed up a plan for the next few months.  In February we will meet at Lynda's to talk about Passionate Mothers, Powerful Sons by Charlotte Gray.  This will be on Wednesday, February 12 at 1 pm.

The following book club date will be Thursday, March 20 and we will meet at Susan's house at 1 pm. The book we have chosen is The Wren, The Wren by Ann Enright. 

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